Step 3: A Portrait of Myself as a Decision Maker

Meet Stephanie and Brian, who will invite you into a problem-solving dialogue about a difficult decision they have to make.

Listen to what their friends say they should do.

Notice the strategy their friends use—it's called RIVALING. Rivaling tries to come up with many different ways of seeing and solving the problem.

Notice a second strategy Brian and Stephanie use—it's called TELLING THE STORY-BEHIND-THE-STORY. It lets them think about why they made that decision and what they learned.

Let Brian and Stephanie show you how to hold your own problem-solving dialogue, because the next step in this Journey will ask you: Check out the multimedia Introduction. (.mov)

Have you finished the Introduction? If so, take a closer look at how to tell the story-behind-the-story. And start thinking about the story you have to tell about your own decision.

Take Time Out for a Strategy Session
Story-Behind-the-Story: A Strategy for Getting at the Whole Truth
>> View the SBS Strategy Session (pgs. 2-3) (If you do not have your Strategy Session worksheet with you, you may click here to download a copy.)